
I would pick the SANSUI. For coding it has the cleanest looking text of the bunch because the panel is IPS with a standard RGB subpixel layout, so ClearType on Windows and macOS font rendering both line up and you avoid the color fringes you saw on VA. Sharpness is sensible out of the box, so small monospace fonts stay crisp without halos.
After you set it up, run the ClearType wizard on Windows and choose RGB, and on macOS enable font smoothing if text looks a bit light. Stick to native scaling for best edge contrast. That combo has been very comfortable for long coding days without blowing the budget.
I agree with this pick. It matches your priorities for clear, comfortable code and avoids the color fringing you ran into, so text stays crisp on both Windows and macOS. Sharpness is well tuned, so small monospace fonts look clean instead of haloed. I went through a couple returns for the same reason and landed in the same place.