Posted by Patrick Lewis
1 month ago

How do you all decide what to keep or toss when decluttering?

My room feels crowded with stuff. I want to clean it, but I get stuck choosing what to keep. What simple rules help you decide fast? I have about an hour after school each day. I work full-time and squeeze this in around dinner and bedtime. Small wins are fine; I just want something that actually helps. I'm in a small town, so options are limited and shipping can be slow. This has been on my mind for a while and I'd love some real-world experiences. I've already tried a couple of the obvious things, but the results were mixed. I'm in a small town, so options are limited and shipping can be slow.

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Toby Ward avatar
Toby Ward 42 rep
1 month ago
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I make decisions fast by using three rules and a container limit. Keep it only if you use it regularly, love it, or will definitely need it within the next month. Duplicates stay only if they serve different purposes, and you keep the best one. If an item can be replaced locally in one errand for under $15, I let it go rather than store it just in case in a crowded room. Work one small zone per day, about the size of a bath towel or a single drawer, and sort with four boxes or bags labeled keep, relocate, donate, and trash, plus a dated quarantine box for maybes. Everything gets handled once, and if it does not fit in its container, the overflow goes. For example, I keep only what fits in one shoebox of cords and the rest gets recycled as e-waste.

In a one-hour session, spend 5 minutes setting up, 40 minutes sorting that one zone, and 15 minutes closing out by putting away keep items, taking trash out, and bagging donations so they are ready by the door. Schedule one drop-off or pickup day a week, even if it is just the church thrift or a community swap shelf, and keep a single tote labeled next trip to town so slow shipping and infrequent errands do not stall you. For clothes, choose a number that fits your space, like 15 tees and 7 pairs of socks, and stick to it. If something new comes in, one goes out. For sentimental bits, snap a photo and limit yourself to a small memory box that closes. I keep one ticket stub from a concert and let the rest go. Papers follow a one-touch rule and a simple system of two folders, Action and Archive, with anything older than a year scanned with your phone and recycled unless legally needed.

Ayla Stewart avatar
Ayla Stewart 11 rep
1 month ago

Set a 15-minute timer, grab a trash bag and a donate box. Keep only what you used in the last 30 days or would buy again tomorrow at full price. Hit one small zone per day like a nightstand or desk drawer, then stop.

Barbara Cruz avatar
Barbara Cruz 5 rep
1 month ago

Set hard limits per category using containers you already own. If a category does not fit, remove items until it does. Make a dated quarantine box for maybes for 30 days and purge it if untouched. No buying organizers and repurpose grocery boxes and jars.

Taylor Martinez avatar
1 month ago

I go by cost versus utility. If I can replace it cheaply and haven't touched it in months, it's out. Fix what I can with stuff I already have instead of buying organizers. Keeps things simple without extra spending.

Rohan Shah avatar
Rohan Shah 0 rep
1 month ago

Look and I've been there, staring at a room full of junk after a long shift, feeling like it's impossible. Empathy aside, most fancy rules fail because people overestimate their willpower. You think you'll stick to 'one in, one out,' but life gets busy and it all comes back.

I've seen colleagues try minimalism apps, only to abandon them when the notifications annoy them. Digital backups sound great until your cloud account gets hacked or you forget the password. Physical stuff? If it's not essential for daily survival, it's probably weighing you down more than helping.

In the end, pessimism wins. set low expectations, toss ruthlessly, but don't be surprised if you end up buying back what you ditched. Small town shipping delays just make it worse, so maybe keep more than you think. It's a cycle, man.

Adalynn Diaz avatar
Adalynn Diaz 66 rep
1 month ago

If it hasn't been used in the last year, toss it. I set a timer for 15 minutes and focus on one drawer at a time to avoid burnout. Clothes that don't fit or are worn out go straight to donation. no second thoughts.

Two things that sped me up: container limits and an outbox. Give each category a home (one bin or shelf); keep your favorites until it’s full then everything else goes into a dated outbox for your next trip into town. If you can’t name a specific next use and where it will live within 10 seconds, it goes to donate or trash, and anything still sitting in the outbox after 30 days leaves the house.

Heather Parker avatar
1 month ago

I gotta say, decluttering is the best thing ever. it's like giving your room a fresh start and your mind a break. I get super pumped sorting through my old travel souvenirs, keeping only the ones that remind me of epic adventures and ditching the rest. For clothes, if I haven't worn it on a trip in the last year, it's gone, because who needs extra weight? Digital backups are a game-changer too. scan those important docs and toss the paper clutter.

One time I overdid it and regretted tossing a favorite jacket, but hey, it taught me to double-check with a 'maybe' pile that I review after a week. Now my space is optimized for quick getaways, and I feel so positive about it. You can do this in your hour slots. just pick a category like books or gadgets each day and go for it. The enthusiasm builds as you see progress, trust me.

Kira Harris avatar
Kira Harris 10 rep
1 month ago

Decluttering changed my life after I lost all my stuff in a backpacking trip gone wrong. Now I keep only what sparks joy or has a real purpose, like Marie Kondo style but with a twist for backups. I make duplicates of important papers and photos digitally before tossing the originals. It's so freeing to travel light and know everything essential is safe in the cloud or a small safe. Start with your desk or a shelf, and celebrate each small win with a treat. You'll feel amazing once the space opens up.

Try a fast three-pass: 1) trash and obvious no’s, 2) duplicates (keep the best one), 3) 90/365 rule - keep what you used in the last 90 days or will need in the next season. Since replacement is slower in a small town allow one clearly labeled “-in-case” bin; seal it with a date, and if you don’t open it in 60 days and donate it as-is. In your hour, tackle one surface or one drawer and stop when your donate/trash bags are full so you get a clear win.

Mila Santos avatar
Mila Santos 3 rep
1 month ago

Got stuck in a hostel once after my bag got lifted, and it weirdly clarified what mattered. Since then I use the pack-for-a-week test: if I would not pack it for a one-week trip, it goes or it lives in a small memory box. Papers get a quick photo on my phone and I keep originals only if they are truly important. For your hour, pick one surface, put on a playlist, and race yourself. Grocery bag for donate, trash bag for trash, and a shoebox for keep so you finish fast and feel a win.

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