Posted by Theo Evans
20 days ago

How do you reset your daily routine when every habit has fallen apart?

I used to start my day at 6:30 with a short walk and eggs. Now I hit snooze four times and stare at my phone in the dark. By the time I get up, I am rushed and grumpy. The dog waits at the door and and I feel guilty. The kitchen shows it. Bowls in the sink, cereal for dinner, mail stacked on the chair. My sneakers sit by the door but never move. I miss the person who packed lunch and set out clothes. I tried to fix it fast. I bought a small planner and bright pens. I set three alarms and made a chart on the fridge. It worked for two days, then it fell apart. I want a reset that lasts. What is the first tiny habit that will help me climb back? How can I stop the phone scroll trap in the morning? I need simple steps for sleep, meals, and getting out the door. This has been on my mind for a while and I'd love some real-world experiences. I learn best from step-by-step examples or what you'd repeat if you started over. I work full-time and squeeze this in around dinner and bedtime. If there are pitfalls you ran into, those would be super helpful to hear too. For context, I live with a roommate and we share most things.

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Joan Walker avatar
Joan Walker 57 rep
18 days ago
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Start with one anchor - put your phone to charge outside the bedroom and use a cheap alarm clock. On iPhone, set Settings > Screen Time > Downtime for 10 pm to 7 am with App Limits for social. On Android and use Digital Wellbeing > Bedtime mode and app timers. Before bed, hang the dog leash on the doorknob and put your sneakers in front of it. When the alarm goes off, turn on a light, use the bathroom, leash the dog, and do a five minute loop before any screen. That single rule breaks the scroll trap and gives you a small win you can stack.

Build a tiny night reset so mornings run on rails. Set a 10 minute bedtime alarm to start shutdown, clear the sink, set the coffee timer, and lay out clothes. Default breakfast and lunch so you do not decide at 6 am: keep six hard boiled eggs in the fridge, fruit on the counter, and a sandwich or leftovers portioned in a grab bag. Real example that works for me on busy weeks: Sunday boil six eggs, bag carrots, and freeze two burritos, then each night while dinner simmers I pack one lunch and put my keys on it in the fridge. Have a fallback for messy days so the routine survives.

If you oversleep, do a 90 second reset only: drink water, leash the dog for a three minute walk, grab a protein bar, and leave, then resume the full steps that night. Biggest pitfalls are changing too much at once and letting a miss turn into a slide, so use the two day rule and only track three checks per day on a wall calendar: phone out of bedroom, five minute walk before screens, night reset done.

Kiran Petrov avatar
Kiran Petrov 63 rep
19 days ago

Been there. Shrink the comeback to the size of a postage stamp. First tiny habit: put the phone to bed in the kitchen and use a cheap alarm clock. Eyes open, light on, feet on floor. Leash the dog before you can think.

Walk for five minutes and call it a win. On return, drink water and zap eggs in a mug for a minute. Clothes staged the night before on a chair. Keys, leash, wallet parked in a little launch spot by the door.

I slid off my routine last winter and the phone-scroll gremlins ate a month. Moving the phone out of the bedroom and walking the dog before coffee snapped me back in five days. Pitfall to dodge is restarting with twelve goals, so lock one in for a week, then stack the next.

Cruz James avatar
Cruz James 5 rep
18 days ago

Fancy planners do not beat gravity. Move the phone out of the bedroom and get a dumb alarm clock. When it rings and leash the dog and walk to the end of the block before your brain boots. Batch eggs on Sunday or grab yogurt, then add one new habit per week.

Brody Evans avatar
Brody Evans 11 rep
19 days ago

You've got this reset thing in the bag, just imagine waking up to that golden sunrise and feeling like a million bucks already. Start with the tiniest win, like placing your phone across the room so you have to get out of bed to shut off the alarm. That one move kickstarts everything, and suddenly you're up, walking the dog, and bam, the day's yours.

I remember when my routine crashed after a crazy work month, but I bounced back by committing to one glass of water first thing, no exceptions. It hydrated me, cleared the fog, and led to better choices like eggs instead of cereal. You're going to love how this snowballs into packing lunches and actually using those sneakers. Keep it simple, celebrate the small stuff, and watch the guilt melt away.

Seriously, with your roommate setup, maybe rope them in for accountability on meals, it'll make it fun and lasting. You've already tried planners, so build on that positivity, add a reward like a favorite podcast during your walk. This is your comeback story, and it's going to be epic.

Jerry Wilson avatar
Jerry Wilson 0 rep
18 days ago

This gets asked a lot. Remove the phone from the bedroom. Fixed wake time every day, even weekends. Alarm goes off, light on, stand up, dog out. Five minutes outside is enough to reset your head. No phone until the leash is back on the hook.

Night routine is a timer, not vibes. Ten minutes to clear dishes, prep coffee, set clothes, and pack lunch. Basket by the door for keys, wallet, leash bags. Screen cutoff one hour before bed.

Pitfalls are stacking goals and buying gear. Miss a day and restart at the next opportunity, not next week.

Catherine Morales avatar
17 days ago

Haha and resetting routines sounds great on paper, but let's be real, those fancy planners and charts are just colorful distractions that end up collecting dust. I've tried it all, and the only thing that sticks is admitting you're human and starting with zero expectations. Doubt those three alarms will save you. maybe try laughing at yourself when you snooze and gently nudge into a walk anyway.

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