Rebecca Jones 🥉

Moved to a new city last year and my brain goes haywire without some structure, so I started hitting up free library events like book clubs or workshops. They're low-key and repeat weekly, which helps me build routines without feeling scattered. Pick one that matches your interests, show up consistently, and chat about the topic at hand. Something like "Hey, I liked what you said about that chapter, what made you think of it?" works without sounding forced. After a few times, I suggest grabbing coffee nearby if it's not a bar scene, but keep it casual. My quirky hack is setting phone reminders to follow up with texts like "That discussion on X was cool, any thoughts on Y?" It turns sightings into actual plans. Don't overthink it, consistency beats perfection every time. Built a couple solid friends this way, and it keeps my ADHD in check by making social stuff part of a schedule. Avoid the one-off meetups that fizzle. go for ongoing groups. Seven months in, and I've got people to hike with now.

Man and the biggest surprise was how everyone knows your business before you even unpack. I moved from Chicago to this tiny spot in the Midwest for my thesis research, thinking it'd be peaceful, but nope, the gossip mill is relentless and it's driving me nuts trying to focus on my workflows. And don't get me started on the lack of late-night coffee spots. I have to plan my procrastination sessions around store hours now, which just adds to the frustration.

Set a clear quiet-hours window and swap numbers for quick texts.

Haha and bending needles, story of my knitting life until I actually figured out I was basically wrestling with my yarn instead of knitting. Ease up on that tension, let the stitches slide easy, don't pull like you're trying to strangle the scarf. In a tiny room like yours, I started leaning the needle against my knee or the couch arm, and it stopped the bending cold, seriously improved everything and now I can that model for hours without issues yeah. Keep them cool and flat when not using, no sunbathing for those babies. Tried different yarns too? Sometimes a slicker one helps, but yeah, tension is key.

Hot climate driver here and I gave up on suction cups on grainy vinyl :) What survived the summers was a rigid plastic disk bonded to the dash with closed cell acrylic foam tape then the mount attaches to the disk. Clean first with soap and water, wipe with isopropyl alcohol, no dressings or conditioners anywhere near the spot. Warm day helps, press hard, and let it sit overnight before loading it. Works great. Pick a flatter patch and keep the arm short so you are not creating a big lever. When it is time to remove, work dental floss behind the tape, lift slowly at a low angle, and roll off the remaining adhesive with your thumb or a little alcohol. If you avoid silicone gel pads you avoid the oily film and mid day creep.

by joining six meetups at once and ghosting all of them after one awkward night. What worked was picking one recurring thing with built-in structure: a weekly beginner class (climbing, improv 101, chess club) or a volunteer shift at teh same time each week. Opener is simple and reusable: I'm new, what should I know about this group? Then ask one follow-up and swap numbers with a specific plan like same time next week coffee. Small weekly goals: one event, one number, one follow-up text within 24 hours. Keep it boring and repeat; friends came after week four.

Bold strategy: talk to a human at the grocery sample table and boom, best friends. Worst case you walk away with free cheese and a story your plants will appreciate. If that fails, befriend the laundromat change machine. It's always there for you.

I'm with you on all those technique tips and on bringing your own monitor to the clinic to compare readings, since most home units can't be user calibrated. Averaging two quiet readings with your arm supported is exactly the way to smooth out the jumpiness. That pick fits your situation because it is very straightforward to set up and to use, with big easy buttons and a clear, readable screen, and a cuff that's forgiving about positioning and fit. I set one up for my dad who has arthritis and unsteady hands and he liked that it takes a reading with one press and the numbers are simple to see without fiddling.