Tag: making-friends

6 questions tagged with making-friends

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    How do you all make adult friends in a new city?

    I moved to a new city three months ago for a better cost of living and ended up in a remote role and so my workday is me, a laptop, and a talking plant (it does not talk back). I have a couple of college friends in the state, but they're a long drive away. Weeknights feel quiet, and weekends swing between errands and wandering through parks before heading home. I've tried a few events and one drop-in class at a climbing gym, but conversations end at small talk. I don't drink much and I'm on a budget, so constant bar nights or pricey memberships are tough. I'm looking for low-pressure ways to meet people who want to hang again, not just chat once. What worked for you to move from acquaintance to actual friend? How did you keep momentum after the first meet-up? I work full-time and squeeze this in around dinner and bedtime. I'm in a small town, so options are limited and shipping can be slow.
    Posted 1 month ago by Rebecca Jones
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    How do you make new friends in a city where everyone already has a group?

    I moved to a new city six months ago and my social circle is currently two baristas and a houseplant. I've tried a couple classes and a neighborhood meetup, but conversations drift off after hello. I'm free most weeknights, not a big drinker, and I'd prefer low-cost options. I'm looking for ways to meet people that don't require loud bars or selling my soul for pricey memberships. Any strategies for turning repeated sightings into actual friendships without being awkward? Bonus points for scripts that don't sound robotic.
    Posted 1 month ago by Jacob Murphy
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    How do you make new friends in a new city?

    I just moved and don't know many people. What are simple ways to meet folks without it being awkward? (If it matters, this is for a normal household setup, nothing fancy.)
    Posted 2 months ago by Richard Patel
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    Moving to a new city alone: how did you build a social circle?

    I'm moving across the country for a new job next month and won't know anyone there. I'm mid-20s, not big on nightlife, and I'd rather find low-key ways to meet people. I'm into board games and running 🙂. If you were me, what would your first 30 days look like to build a social circle? I'm thinking clubs, classes, or volunteering, but I don't want to overcommit. How do you balance safety with saying yes to invites? Also curious how you turned casual hangouts into actual friendships without being pushy.
    Posted 2 months ago by Janet Young
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    Moving to a new city—how do adults make real friends?

    I'm moving to a new city next month for a job and I don't know anyone there. I'm a bit introverted and I'm worried I'll just go home after work and isolate. I'd really like to build real friendships, not just coworker small talk. I'm not a big drinker, so bars aren't my best option, and my budget is tight for a while. I can commit a few evenings a week and weekends if there's a plan. What groups, activities, or habits actually lead to meeting people you see more than once? I'd also love some simple scripts for starting conversations without being awkward. Any advice on pacing, safety, and staying consistent would really help. Thank you in advance. For context: I'm not looking for professional advice, just everyday experiences.
    Posted 2 months ago by Daniel Murphy
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    Making friends in a new city as an adult?

    Moved to a new city for work and I don't know anyone outside the office. I'm late 20s, not big on bars, and I'm on a budget. Weeknights after 6 and weekend mornings are my best times. Looking for practical ideas that actually lead to repeat hangouts, not just one-off chats. Places to go, low-awkward openers, and small goals for each week would be great. Bonus if they work for introverts who need a little structure.
    Posted 2 months ago by Seth Brooks