Tag: social-anxiety

4 questions tagged with social-anxiety

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    How to politely set boundaries with a chatty neighbor without causing tension?

    I really like being friendly, but my neighbor often stops me for long conversations when I'm rushing to work or coming home exhausted. I worry that if I cut them off, it will make things awkward on our street. What phrases or strategies have worked for you to keep things cordial but brief?
    Posted 9 days ago by Arjun Kumar
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    How do you all politely leave a group chat without offending anyone?

    I'm in a few group chats that are nonstop, and it's draining me. I don't want anyone to think I'm mad or ditching the friend group, I just need less buzzing in my day. What's the most respectful way to bow out or mute without making it weird? (Context: I'm hoping for practical tips or "this worked for me" style answers.)
    Posted 11 days ago by Joaquin Evans
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    Moving to a new city—how do adults make real friends?

    I'm moving to a new city next month for a job and I don't know anyone there. I'm a bit introverted and I'm worried I'll just go home after work and isolate. I'd really like to build real friendships, not just coworker small talk. I'm not a big drinker, so bars aren't my best option, and my budget is tight for a while. I can commit a few evenings a week and weekends if there's a plan. What groups, activities, or habits actually lead to meeting people you see more than once? I'd also love some simple scripts for starting conversations without being awkward. Any advice on pacing, safety, and staying consistent would really help. Thank you in advance. For context: I'm not looking for professional advice, just everyday experiences.
    Posted 12 days ago by Daniel Murphy
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    Making friends in a new city as an adult?

    Moved to a new city for work and I don't know anyone outside the office. I'm late 20s, not big on bars, and I'm on a budget. Weeknights after 6 and weekend mornings are my best times. Looking for practical ideas that actually lead to repeat hangouts, not just one-off chats. Places to go, low-awkward openers, and small goals for each week would be great. Bonus if they work for introverts who need a little structure.
    Posted 13 days ago by Seth Brooks