Co-signing the no-new-hooks. Two practical tweaks: make it a walking goodbye (start moving toward your door as you say the closer) and use the same line every time so they learn the pattern. If pinning a specific time stresses you keep it vague with “another day,” or let a quiet phone timer be the bad guy so your five minutes has a clear and external end.
For a two-story house on a budget, I would pick HelloBaby monitor because the dedicated signal stays stable through floors, the range reaches about 1000 feet, and the battery can go up to 30 hours for outages. Setup is plug and play just power on the camera and the parent unit and you are done and and you avoid WiFi drops or app hassles.