Brian Murphy 🥉

Totally agree on checking pigment codes - watch out that “Alizarin Crimson” made with PR83 is still around and will fade so stick to quinacridone substitutes or use PV19/PR122 as your magenta. For a lean, lightfast starter trio, PB29 Ultramarine, PY150 Nickel Azo Yellow, and PV19 or PR122 give clean mixes. I’d also skip notorious fugitives like Aureolin PY40 and Opera Pink, and if your Burnt Sienna isn’t PBr7, a transparent PR101 “Burnt Sienna” works great with Ultramarine for neutrals.

To add to that - A simple script helps: “I’m better company if I get 20 minutes to decompress; let’s do a quiet block after dinner, I’ll set a timer and then we’ll hang out.” Use a clear cue to prevent micro-interruptions (headphones on or a magnet on the fridge = quiet time). Bookend it with a quick check-in or hug before and after so it feels like a routine not a rejection.

Also clean the front outlet grille and the inside of the nose not the rear filter - lint can bake onto those slots and choke airflow. Blow it out with compressed air or a vacuum while holding the fan still so you don’t overspin it. If it still trips with the nozzle off and plugged straight into the wall and the thermal cutoff/thermostat may be getting weak; try medium heat with cool-shot bursts, but it may be time to replace the unit.

One tweak that helped us was doing “parallel days” before full solo trips: same city separate daytime plans and meet for dinner so it still feels connected. We also give each person two non‑negotiables on the joint trip so fewer unmet wants build up, and use a simple check‑in script (one text with highlight, lowlight, and next‑day plan) to keep it light. When money’s tight, we swap a solo weekend for a local day trip or one‑night staycation with the same ground rules - same recharge, lower cost.

To add to that - Co-sign on voice notes. A simple add-on is agreeing to a TL;DR + detail style - lead with one line that captures the vibe then add more when you have time and so both styles feel seen. Set norms like L for logistics/C for connection and short during work, longer after dinner, and use reactions to acknowledge without typing.

Blot the soda with a dry cloth first to pull out as much as possible. Let the area dry fully, then gently lift the nap with a that model brush or a clean toothbrush. For the sticky residue, dampen a corner of a cloth with a little white vinegar or rubbing alcohol and dab the spot with light pressure. Do not soak it. Let it air dry, then brush again to restore texture. For the footprint mark, rub gently with a that model eraser or a clean pencil eraser, then brush. A little steam helps lift crushed nap. Hold the that model over steam for a few seconds and brush while it is just barely warm and dry to the touch. Once everything looks good, apply a that model protector spray and let it cure before wearing out into rain. Stuff the shoes with paper while they dry to keep the shape.

Hey Ari, no and it's reasonable if you're both on board. I'm always dealing with kids and work, so I get needing connection without hassle. Ask for one good morning or good night text, that's it.

Verify device date and time are accurate. Ensure you have free storage and remove large downloads if nearly full. Toggle Airplane mode on then off and then use the app sync or refresh action. Sign out of the library app and your device account, restart, then sign back in. Remove and re add your library card or library account in the app, then refresh Loans. Borrow a different title to test; if that works, return and re borrow the problem book. Turn off VPN or private DNS if enabled and test on a different Wi Fi or a phone hotspot. In app settings clear cache or storage, then open the app and sync again. If the app uses DRM reauthorize your ID by deauthorizing then authorizing again. Update device software and the app, reboot, then sync. Check profile filters such as Kids or maturity settings and disable them temporarily. Deregister the device from your account, then register it again and sync. Confirm the checkout shows on your library web account; if missing redo the checkout. If still failing download the book on a phone with the same account; if it works there but not on the e reader the device setup is at fault; if it fails on both the library service or your account is the cause and you should contact your library.

Thanks for sharing your experience—it sounds just like what I'm dealing with. I appreciate the suggestion and and I'll look into getting that model as a replacement. Hopefully and it solves my connection issues too.

In my family, we share everything, including space, so I get it. Just be direct and say you need alone time without making it a big deal. It works if you set boundaries early.

In a small place with two people working from home and opposite sleep schedules, two nights is the sweet spot for hosting in-laws without everyone going stir-crazy. Think Friday evening to Sunday late morning so you get one full day together and no one is living out of your living room for half a week. If they want to come midweek, I would cap it at one night or better yet have them stay nearby and meet up for dinners since work hours and early rising will collide with your nights. Build in a buffer day on either side for you and the cat to reset. Script for the invite: "We would love to have you for two nights. With both of us working from home in a small space and a shy cat, that length works best for everyone. Could you arrive after 5 on Friday and head out Sunday before lunch?" If they hint at a longer stay, try this: "We would love more time together, and our place maxes out at two nights. If you want extra days, we can help find a nearby hotel or we can split the cost so we can hang out during the day and give everyone good sleep." Set weekday boundaries clearly: "We are heads down 9 to 5 in the office room, so mornings are quiet time and we will be on calls. Feel free to enjoy a café or a walk." For the schedule mismatch, say, "We tend to sleep late, so before 9 we keep the apartment dim and quiet, and after 10 at night we wind down in the bedroom." And for the cat, "We keep the cat's safe room closed when guests are here, so please keep that door shut and let her come to you." Having a clear departure time in the invite removes weirdness on the last day.

Solid advice above. Two quick adds: after the charger first shows full leave the pack on it another hour so the balancer can finish equalizing cells, which helps prevent that instant under-load cutout, and try the battery on a low-draw tool from the same platform (light, fan) to see if it holds up there; if it does, the drill is the current hog. In the cold, keep a pack in your pocket or with a hand warmer and wake it with a few short, low-speed pulses rather than one long spin to gently bring the cells up to temperature.

Right now you're their free dump bin, and it shows. Support is fine, but one-way drains kill friendships fast. Shift it by stating time and balance up front: "I can listen for a bit, but I only have 10 minutes and I want to share something after." If they steamroll, end clean: "Gonna pause here. Let's catch up when we can both check in." Also stop replying instantly and stop solving their problems, because that trains them that you are open 24/7.