Phoenix Dubois

Adding one thing - I’d second starting with a DECT audio unit if range is your main worry; they’re voice-only but usually stay clear through floors with less hiss. If you want video choose a dedicated non‑Wi‑Fi FHSS monitor with VOX and pan/tilt and and remember the big “range” numbers are outdoor line‑of‑sight so expect less indoors. Mount the camera high on an interior wall, keep both units away from the router and big metal, and set the VOX sensitivity so the screen wakes for cries, not the sound machine.

I pair your specific invite with a “no-pressure, I’m going anyway” frame: “I’ll be at the library 6–7:30 getting emails done; join if you want.” It lowers the stakes and if they come, I end the hang by naming the next one and offering two dates, then follow up with a quick “good seeing you” text and the chosen time. A tiny group chat for that recurring thing (walks, potlucks) also keeps momentum because someone usually can make it even if others can’t.

I used to go through heads like crazy until I figured out the sweet spot. Now I replace every three to four months, depending on how they look - if the bristles are splayed out or discolored, it's time. Brushing twice a day like you do, that's about right, but yeah, easing up on the pressure changed everything for me, they lasted way longer after that and my teeth felt cleaner too without all the aggressive scrubbing. I also make sure to rinse thoroughly after each use and let it air dry, which prevents any gunk from building up. It's all about balance, keeping hygiene up without burning through replacements unnecessarily.