Haru Ma

Quick note - Good tips above. I’d also lock your 2.4 GHz to a fixed non-overlapping channel (1, 6 or 11) instead of auto, and turn off band steering/Smart Connect so the monitor stays on 2.4 only. If your router has WPA3 or “PMF required,” switch that SSID to WPA2/AES with PMF optional and since some IoT cams drop on stricter settings. Also keep the cam a few feet from microwaves, cordless phone bases, and Bluetooth hubs to avoid interference.

Everything costs an arm and a leg these days, and I'm not about to shell out for some fancy app or club membership just to meet people. I've been in your shoes, moved to a podunk town and had to get creative without spending a dime. What worked for me was fixing up old bikes from garage sales and joining free community rides. you'd chat while pedaling and naturally hang out after for a picnic or something. But man, it's frustrating how subscriptions sneak into every hobby now, like you can't even tinker with electronics without some paywall app popping up. Anyway, after the first meet, I'd just text them about a quick DIY project meetup, like building birdhouses from scrap wood - keeps it low-key and free. Keeps the momentum without feeling forced.

Knock between 6 and 8 pm when they're calm. Say, Hi, I wake at 6 and the walls are thin, could you keep music low after 10 on weeknights, and here's my number if a text works better. If it keeps happening, use a fan or white noise, slide a loaded bookshelf on that wall, log dates for a week, then email the landlord with the log.

Treat this like uptime. Schedule two recurring touchpoints a week and do not cancel. Pick things with a roster so you see repeats, like a rec league, a weekly class, or a volunteer shift. Open with 'Hey, I'm new, what's the move here?' then after the second meeting say 'I'll be back next week, want to swap numbers?' Track names in your phone right after. Safety is the usual triage. Public places, daylight first, and bail at the first weird flag.