Tag: professional-boundaries

My boss keeps offering 'quick' stretch projects that mysteriously stretch into weekends. I want to guard my bandwidth without sounding like I'm allergic to initiative. Any phrases that say not now and but keep me off the slacker list? (This has been on my mind for a while and I'd love some real-world experiences. Small wins are fine; I just want something that actually helps. For context, I live with a roommate and we share most things. Money's not unlimited, so I'm prioritizing simple stuff I can actually stick with. I learn best from step-by-step examples or what you'd repeat if you started over. This has been on my mind for a while and I'd love some real-world experiences. Small wins are fine; I just want something that actually helps. If there are pitfalls you ran into, those would be super helpful to hear too. If it matters: apartment setting, no special tools, and I'm in a pretty average climate.)

I've been at my current company for three years and feel stuck, so I started taking interviews. I've got two final rounds coming up next week. My boss casually asked about my 'plans for the next quarter' during our one-on-one, and it felt like they might suspect I'm looking. We're a small team and I don't want to torpedo relationships or risk being sidelined. If I get an offer, I'll give proper notice, but I'm not sure whether honesty now is better than keeping quiet. Is there any upside to telling them I'm interviewing before I have something concrete? For those who've done it, did transparency help, or did it backfire? I'm trying to balance professionalism with self-preservation. (If it matters, this is for a normal household setup, nothing fancy.)