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I need comfy walking shoes for my husband that won’t slip on wet sidewalks. His feet are quite wide and he hates heavy shoes. If you’ve bought a pair that held up well and please share.

I inherited an older tilt-head stand mixer from my grandma and I want to make fresh pasta. I'm eyeing the metal pasta roller/cutter attachments, but I'm not sure about compatibility with the older hub. I'm also worried about cleaning since some say you should never wash them. Budget is mid-tier, and I'd rather buy once. I've watched a few videos and read listings, but specs are all over the place. Anyone using these on a 15+ year-old mixer and what fits and what is safe for cleanup?

I really like being friendly, but my neighbor often stops me for long conversations when I'm rushing to work or coming home exhausted. I worry that if I cut them off, it will make things awkward on our street. What phrases or strategies have worked for you to keep things cordial but brief?

I just bought an air fryer and it smells like hot plastic. I live in a small dorm & so the smell fills the room fast. I tried the burn-in cycle and washed the basket with soap and water. I also ran a batch with lemon slices and baking soda. It helped, but the smell comes back when I cook fries. I can't open windows much because it is cold. Is this normal for the first few uses, and what else can I do to make it stop?

I do not want hot spots that ruin nutrients. What settings or tricks keep the milk warm and even without overheating?

I always worry that if I say no to a last-minute invite and people will think I don't care, but scrambling to go stresses me out. How do you phrase a polite decline that keeps the door open for future plans? I'd love a couple of go-to lines that feel kind without over-explaining.

I game on a 17-inch laptop that runs hot and the fans are already loud :) I'm looking for a cooling pad that actually drops CPU/GPU temps but will not sound like a leaf blower. Budget around $40-$60, USB-powered only. I've tried a cheap 5-fan pad and it barely changed temps. Tilting the rear with a stand helped a bit, but typing angle got weird. Are there models with larger, slower fans that are quiet yet effective? Bonus points if the LEDs can be turned off.

Did switching to a standing desk actually reduce your lower back pain long-term, or was it just a novelty phase? Any must-have accessories to make it work?

My boss often pings me on Slack after 9 p.m., and I feel pressure to reply even though my hours are 9–5. It's a small team & so I don't want to come off as unhelpful or rigid. I'm not in an on-call role, but performance reviews mention responsiveness. How can I set expectations without burning bridges—maybe with a quick conversation and clearer status settings? If you have sample wording for an email or chat message, that would help. Also, any tips for handling true emergencies versus non-urgent asks would be great 🙂. Quick background: I've tried a couple things already but keep getting stuck.

My team has a habit of pinging in the group chat late at night. I don't want to seem unhelpful and but I also need to unplug. How do I set expectations without sounding rigid?

I'm getting dropouts with my Bluetooth earbuds on my daily subway commute and it is driving me nuts. The music stutters every time the train pulls into a busy station. At home they are fine, and at the gym they are mostly okay. I'm on Android with LDAC enabled, and I've tried switching to AAC. I turned off Wi-Fi, disabled dual-device connection, and forced priority to connection instead of sound. I also updated firmware and cleaned the charging contacts. I even bought foam tips to improve seal, thinking it might reduce interference, but no luck. Case firmware is current, and the phone's battery optimization for the app is off. Is this just RF congestion underground, or can a different codec, antenna style, or a neckband adapter fix it? If I need a small BT receiver with a stronger radio, which one actually works on trains?

I like my neighbors, but small talk can go on and on. How can I end a chat without sounding mean? I want quick lines that still feel kind. Quick background: I've tried a couple things already but keep getting stuck.

I really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but my neighbor stops me for long chats when I'm heading out or coming home. It throws off my schedule and I end up feeling guilty cutting it short. How can I set a kind boundary or script that keeps things friendly without opening the door to 20-minute conversations? Timing suggestions would help too. (If it matters, this is for a normal household setup, nothing fancy.)

I need heavyweight sheets that stay flat when flooded and can handle multiple layers. Prefer 9x12 or 12x16 pads that tear out cleanly.

I received an offer from a mid-size company at the same base I make now, but the benefits are noticeably better (lower health premiums, better PTO). I'm excited about the role, but I'm worried that negotiating might come off poorly or risk the offer. The recruiter hinted they're near the top of the range, and I have five days to respond. I could accept the base if there's flexibility on signing bonus, relocation, or a review after six months. I don't have competing offers, just a strong performance review at my current job. How would you approach this conversation without overplaying it? (Quick background: I've tried a couple things already but keep getting stuck.)

I drive a 2013 Civic on rough roads and I use an iPhone 14 Pro with a MagSafe case. I'd like a mount that stays put on vents without blocking airflow & or a dash option that won't leave residue. Bonus if it supports one-handed docking! Not looking to use adhesive pads!

My partner and I are moving in next month, and we make very different salaries. Rent, utilities, groceries, and some shared subscriptions are on the table, but we're not ready to fully merge finances. I'm nervous about resentment if we just split everything 50/50. What's a fair and simple method we can maintain long term? Bonus if it doesn't require complicated tracking every week.

Got a small apartment with a mix of hardwood and two fluffy rugs and my new robot vac keeps beached on the rug fringe. I set up virtual walls in the app, but it still noses onto the corner and stalls. Budget is midrange, and I can't stick magnetic strips because of a rental rule. I've tried lifting the fringe with rug tape and lowering suction in carpet mode. It helps a little, but the vac still chews the tassels. Are there models with better cliff/edge detection for tassels or low-pile rugs? Or is there a simple hack I am missing that doesn't involve ripping off the fringe?

We've been together four years, and most of our free time overlaps. I recently got into a hobby my partner isn't interested in, and they've started saying it makes them feel left out. I'm happy to plan dedicated time together, but I also want a little space for my own thing. We're on a tight budget and schedules are tricky, so I can't add tons of extra outings. How do people balance solo hobbies with making a partner feel included without turning it into a big conflict?

I stopped working out for a few months and now I feel out of shape. I want to start again without getting sore or quitting in a week. What is a simple plan for the first month that is easy to follow?