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Is it rude to ask a friend to pay me back after months have passed?
Earlier this year I covered a friend's share of a group trip because their card wasn't working. They said they'd pay me back the next week, and I believed them. It's now been a few months, and I haven't seen anything. It's not a huge sum, but it's enough that I notice it. We still hang out, and I don't want to make things weird. Could you suggest a polite way to bring it up without sounding accusatory? A short text or two I could copy would help. Also, how many reminders are reasonable before I drop it or get firmer?Posted 12 days ago by Lucas Ward - 2.
Best way to organize thousands of phone photos so I can actually find them?
My phone and laptop have thousands of photos scattered across iCloud and Google. I'm nervous I'll lose something important, but I get overwhelmed when I try to organize. What's a simple, low-maintenance system to sort and back up everything?Posted 12 days ago by Wren Martinez - 3.
Why do my smart plugs keep going offline with Alexa?
My smart plugs keep dropping off Alexa every night around the same time even though the router is in the next room. I’ve split 2.4/5 GHz and reserved IPs, but they still go offline—what setting am I missing?Posted 12 days ago by Eugene Carter - 4.
Making friends in a new city as an adult?
Moved to a new city for work and I don't know anyone outside the office. I'm late 20s, not big on bars, and I'm on a budget. Weeknights after 6 and weekend mornings are my best times. Looking for practical ideas that actually lead to repeat hangouts, not just one-off chats. Places to go, low-awkward openers, and small goals for each week would be great. Bonus if they work for introverts who need a little structure.Posted 12 days ago by Seth Brooks - 5.
Is this HEPA filter compatible with the Shark NV352 vacuum and why do some reviews say it doesn't fit?
The listing says it fits the NV352 but my original foam frame looks different and I’m tired of return roulette. Can someone confirm the exact dimensions or photo compare before I order?Posted 12 days ago by Jaden Gray - 6.
Is refinancing a car loan worth it for a small rate drop?
My current car loan is 7.2% with 36 months left, and a lender offered 6.5% to refinance. There are some fees and I'm not sure about the break-even point. How do I run the numbers and what gotchas should I watch for?Posted 12 days ago by Amanda Stewart - 7.
How can I ask for a promotion when the org chart is flat?
I work at a small company where titles are flat and there isn't much structure. Over the last year, I took on new projects and trained two new people. There isn't a clear manager role to ask for, and budgets are tight. I want to ask for a raise or clearer level without sounding pushy. How can I make my case with simple numbers and examples? I can't leave soon, so I need an approach that keeps things positive.Posted 12 days ago by Harold Thompson - 8.
Meal prep for one without eating the same thing all week?
I'm cooking for myself in a small apartment and hate getting stuck with the same leftovers for days. I'd like to prep once or twice a week for convenience but still have variety so I don't burn out on a single recipe. My fridge space is limited, and at work I only have a microwave. Budget is moderate, and I prefer simple ingredients I can find anywhere. What strategies or base components can I batch (like grains, proteins, sauces) to mix and match into different meals? Tips to keep produce from going limp and to avoid waste would be really helpful.Posted 12 days ago by Evan Rodriguez - 9.
What's the best way to counter a rent increase without souring the relationship?
I received a notice about a sizable increase next month and I'm worried I'll come off confrontational if I push back. How can I politely present comparable rents and propose a smaller bump or a longer lease to keep things amicable?Posted 12 days ago by Jules Choi - 10.
What’s the safest way to start running again after years off?
I used to jog 5Ks in my twenties but haven't run in years. I'm heavier now and want to ease back in without wrecking my knees. I can commit about 30 minutes a day, a few days a week, and I don't have a gym membership. What's a smart way to structure the first month? Should I follow a walk-run plan, and how slow is slow enough? Also curious about shoe advice and basic warm-up and recovery so I stay consistent.Posted 13 days ago by Raymond Brown - 11.
Going back to school in my 30s—what should I plan for?
I'm 34 and thinking about finishing a degree I left years ago. I work full-time and have a partner and a kid, so my time is pretty locked down. I can only do evening or online classes, and my budget is tight. I'm worried about biting off too much and burning out. What should I plan for so I don't waste time or money? Any tips on mapping prerequisites, transferring old credits, and balancing work, family, and school?Posted 13 days ago by CALI COOPER - 12.
Which budget 27-inch 1440p monitor has the clearest text for coding?
Dev here spending 8-10 hours a day staring at code and my eyes are picky about text clarity. Budget is around $200-$300, ideally 27-inch 1440p with an IPS panel. I tried two VA monitors and both had fuzzy text and weird color fringing with subpixel rendering. I switch between a MacBook and a Windows PC, so BGR vs RGB layouts matter. I’d like height adjust, VESA mount, and decent 75-144 Hz if possible. Returned a Lenovo and a Samsung already, so I’m a bit gun-shy. What models have the cleanest text for coding without breaking the bank?Posted 13 days ago by Eleanor Harris - 13.
How do you actually cut evening screen time when your job is already on a screen?
I work remotely all day and then somehow fall into doomscrolling at night too, which wrecks my sleep. I don't want a hardcore digital detox, just realistic tweaks that stick 😅. What small changes or tools have actually helped you wind down without grabbing the phone again?Posted 13 days ago by Rey Abbasi - 14.
How do I calibrate a digital blood pressure monitor at home?
Hi friends, I'm 64 and my doctor wants me to track my numbers at home but I'm not sure I'm using the cuff quite right. My hands aren't as steady and I have some arthritis, so I need something with big buttons and a clear screen. I tried replacing the batteries and sitting quietly for a few minutes before measuring, but my readings jump around a lot. I watched a couple of videos and tried positioning the cuff at heart level. I'm on a fixed income so I don't want to buy a fancy one I can't figure out. Is there a simpler model that's easier to set up and a reliable way to check it's reading accurately?Posted 13 days ago by Zofia Nowak - 15.
How do you politely set boundaries with a neighbor who drops by unannounced?
I'm in a small apartment building and my downstairs neighbor has started popping by without texting first, usually right when I'm on work calls or winding down. I want to keep things friendly because we share a laundry room and see each other often, but the interruptions are stressing me out 😅. I can't just ignore the door because I get frequent package deliveries and maintenance checks. What's a polite, low-drama way to set a clear boundary without making future encounters awkward? Bonus points for scripts I can use on the spot and small signals (signs, doorbell settings) that don't seem passive-aggressive.Posted 13 days ago by Shai Nikolaou - 16.
Why do my Bluetooth noise-cancelling headphones keep cutting out during Zoom calls and how can I fix it?
Moved into a busy apartment building and ever since my Bluetooth noise-cancelling headphones randomly stutter or drop during Zoom meetings. I'm on a Windows laptop and usually sit 2–3 feet from the machine, so distance shouldn't be the issue. I've tried updating Bluetooth drivers, switching from AAC to SBC, and resetting the headphones, but it still happens most days. I also turned off Wi-Fi on 2.4 GHz and forced 5 GHz to reduce interference, which helped a little. Budget-wise, I'd rather not replace the headset if there's a settings tweak or cheap dongle that can fix this. Any tips on codec settings, USB Bluetooth adapters, or Windows power tweaks that actually work?Posted 13 days ago by Kai Choi - 17.
Are waterproof hiking boots actually breathable for summer day hikes?
I hike in warm humid conditions and hate sweaty feet, but I still want protection for shallow stream crossings. Do the lighter waterproof membranes vent well enough, or should I go non-waterproof and rely on quick-dry socks instead? Looking for mid-height options under 2 lbs per pair.Posted 13 days ago by Ethan Murphy - 18.
How do you host a mixed-diet dinner without stressing everyone out?
I'm planning a small dinner for six and I'm a bit nervous about getting it right because two guests are vegetarian and one is gluten-free. I'd like to make something that feels cohesive instead of a bunch of separate plates so no one feels singled out. My kitchen is tiny, my budget is moderate, and I only have about two hours total for prep the day of. I really want it to be relaxed, but I tend to overthink and worry about accidentally excluding someone. What kinds of menus or serving formats (like build-your-own) work well here without turning it into a chaotic potluck? And any polite wording for asking about cross-contamination or hidden ingredients without making it awkward would be appreciated.Posted 13 days ago by Eliana Gonzalez - 19.
Is this action camera chest mount compatible with non-GoPro models?
I'm using a compact action cam with a similar two-prong mount but I'm not sure if the base plate dimensions match. Please confirm compatibility!!Posted 13 days ago by Roger Johnson - 20.
What should a first-time cardholder look for in a starter credit card?
I'm new to credit, have a part-time income, and plan to pay in full each month. For a first card, what matters most—no annual fee, straightforward cashback, a reasonable APR, or starting with a secured or student card? Any common gotchas in terms, minimum redemption amounts, or hidden fees I should watch for?Posted 13 days ago by Nicole Rogers